STILL HERE!

 

Hey guys, it has been a huge hot minute since my last blog. I hope you're doing well and are having a great day, whatever day you're reading this! 

A lot has changed for me within the past two years. In September 2023, I moved to a new town with my mum. I didn't have a job and was looking for work. It took me what felt like ages, I managed to get a job in April 2024, I work in a coffee shop as a barista, I have been at this job for just over a year, within that time, I have had some ups and downs and still more things have happened, I made new friendships and also a romantic relationship which started on June 9th 2024, we have been together almost a year now, and during that time he moved into my mums house with me in the November 2024. It was going well, then there were family issues. This situation had to then change, both me my partner and I have moved into a house together in March 2025, we have been living together for over 2 months now, and we couldn't be happier, we are both going on this journey together, and it's exciting to see where we go. 

I just wish certain people in my life would be genuinely happy for me, but it always seems to become an issue, and they always try to find ways to ruin the happiness I have. A decision I've made to help myself is to distance myself a little bit from them to help my mental health. There is far too much hurt in the world to be in the middle of drama; we all need less of it and to look after ourselves. Others may see it as selfishness, but it's nothing more than self-love.

Life is too short, not too! 

Love yourself the way you love others, treat yourself in the best way possible and believe in yourself! 

Today, as I sit here writing this, I feel the need to get this off my chest. If loads of people read this or no one does, I felt it was right to speak to you today. 

Thank you to all who have read or not read this. I hope you have a blessed life and live it to the maximum you can! 

Love you all! 

Bec x